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'This book breaks down the social, emotional and practical aspects of relationships so usefully that it is a good resource for teachers and others working with neurotypical individuals. In fact the book so sensibly discusses pitfalls, strategies and individual responsibilities that it would be valuable reading for teenagers generally as well as for individuals with Asperger syndrome' - Tess Coll, autism outreach teacher

‘The Asperger Love Guide is recommended reading for those with Asperger’s syndrome who are seeking or within a relationship. The authors provide a clear explanation of how the characteristics of Asperger’s syndrome can affect the development of a relationship and the expression of love. They then provide sound practical advice for individuals and couples. I really enjoyed reading The Asperger Love Guide and will be recommending the book to my clients’ – Professor Tony Attwood

`This is the first book I've read in a long time that, once started, I couldn't put down until it was finished. It is an exceptionally good read. The 77 pages are written succinctly with no waffle - just straight to the point.

I will definitely buy a copy of this book for the whole family to use! I will use it to guide Joe (my 17 year old Asperger son) when he's ready for it. It's not a book he would read himself; in fact I read the section "the merits of single life" out loud to him a bit like a bed time story' - Action for ASD

'There is a great need for more awareness of Asperger syndrome and how it affects personal relationships. The National Autistic Society find this a helpful guide' - Cathy Mercer, NAS

'This book sets out some helpful facts about relationships in a neat, simple form' - Asperger United

'An excellent self 'help-text'... the book is a clear and matter-of-fact guide to relationships and is unapologetic in offering straightforward and helpful advice for romantic success... Not a word is wasted, and as well as being highly recommended for individuals with Asperger's Syndrome, should also be read by education professionals supporting young people with Asperger's Syndrome in schools, colleges and universities' - SENCO Update

'Aimed primarily at individuals with Asperger syndrome, this very readable book is in fact of use to a much wider audience. The issues are discussed openly and logically and the advice given is both sympathetic and very matter of fact... The book breaks down the social, emotional and practical aspects of relationships so usefully that it is a good resource for teachers and others working with neurotypical individuals. Infact the book so sensibly discusses pitfalls, strategies and individual responsibilities that it would be valuable reading for teenagers generally as well as for individuals with Asperger syndrome' - British Journal of Special Education

Material based on the experiences of the people on the Autistic Spectrum is usually written by neurotypical writers. Here, Genevieve and Dean, both adults with Asperger's Syndrome, share their advice and tips for romantic success.

The chapters cover:

o building self-esteem;

o the best places to meet potential partners;

o dating;

o maintaining relationships.

Both authors work with the Asperger community, either providing support or training, so their insight is based upon other people's experiences as well as their own. This is shown in a number of case studies that support the elements described in each chapter. They write in a clear, accessible and non-patronizing way which will suit their audience.

This will prove to be an invaluable book to those with Asperger's or those that support Asperger people.

Dean Worton is a 31 year-old high functioning individual with a very positive expression of Asperger Syndrome. He runs a successful UK-based website for adults with Asperger Syndrome and hosts real-life meet-ups around the UK for its members. His key interest is in encouraging adults with AS to live positively and successfully with the gifts that Asperger Syndrome provides. He also works in adminstration and resides in North-West England.

Genevieve Edmonds is a 23 year old with 'residual' Asperger Syndrome, which she views as a significant gift. She works as an associate of the Missing Link Support Service in Lancashire supporting those 'disabled by society' including individuals with ASD. She speaks and writes frequently in the field of Autism, along with giving training, workshops and soon counselling. She aims to empower those with ASD, carers and professionals in the understanding of Asperger Syndrome as a difference rather than an impairment. She lives and works in a solution-focused way and is based in North-West England

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Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #210095 in Books
• Published on: 2005-11-22
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 92 pages

Review
‘The Asperger Love Guide is recommended reading for those with Asperger’s syndrome who are seeking or within a relationship. The authors provide a clear explanation of how the characteristics of Asperger’s syndrome can affect the development of a relationship and the expression of love. They then provide sound practical advice for individuals and couples. I really enjoyed reading The Asperger Love Guide and will be recommending the book to my clients’ – Professor Tony Attwood

`This is the first book I've read in a long time that, once started, I couldn't put down until it was finished. It is an exceptionally good read. The 77 pages are written succinctly with no waffle - just straight to the point.

I will definitely buy a copy of this book for the whole family to use! I will use it to guide Joe (my 17 year old Asperger son) when he's ready for it. It's not a book he would read himself; in fact I read the section "the merits of single life" out loud to him a bit like a bed time story' - Action for ASD

'This book sets out some helpful facts about relationships in a neat, simple form' - Asperger United

About the Author
Genevieve Edmonds is a 23-year old individual with Asperger Syndrome. She works for a private consultancy, 'The Missing Link', led by Consultant Psychologist Vicky Bliss. The consultancy supports many individuals with ASD's. For the Missing Link Genevieve gives training, consultancy, talks at conferences, autism organisations and university autism courses; plus counselling in ASD's. She is currently also undertaking post-graduate studies in autism; she has just completed an NAS level 3 autism accredited course. Articles written by Genevieve are published in National Autistic Society publications / website. She is partner to Dean and lives in Lancashire. Dean Worton is a 31-year old individual with Asperger Syndrome. He, along with Genevieve and two other adults with AS runs a successful UK-based website supporting adults with Asperger Syndrome in the UK and hosts real-life meet-ups for its' members. He also works in database administration, along with working on a voluntary basis for his local NAS branch. He is also partner to Genevieve. He is educated top degree level. He lives in Cumbria.

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Customer Reviews

Excellent resource for a highly complex and subtle subject
Most interested to read Mr Miserable's review. It highlights exactly why such guides are necessary. 'It's just common sense'is precisely what eludes many individual with Asperger Syndrome, as this is 'common sense' from the neurotypical world which is often nonsensical to those in the Asperger World. Full credit to thr authors for providing a guide which covers two equally highly complex and subtle areas to provide a text which is straighforward, practical and readable. Although there are other texts dealing with the issue of AS and relationships, this surpasses them in terms of cutting down the complexity to such a user-friendly text covering a vast selection of abilities. It just highlights just how on the surface AS may seem easy to understand yet so few people do. Written with warmth and respect. Well done.

brilliant
A guide book such as this one is much overdue. It is something you can pick up and read quickly. Positive attitudes and ideas drip from every page. It is packed with good clear advice and suggestions without being judgemental. It is being read by some of the older students we work with in Sheffield. It is also vital reading for neurotypicals because it gives a clear insight into some of the best ways to work alongside people with AS. The advice given is honest, straightforward with little room for mis-understandings. Neurotypicals must continue, with their best efforts, to learn from people such as Genevieve and Dean. As long as we remain open to learning from people such as Genevieve and Dean, we won't go far wrong.

Positive and timely- couldn't put it down
With the Asperger world growing this sort of publication really sets a prescedent for the sort of advice and attitude Aspie adults need to surround themselves with. There are no answers to how Aspies can better live their lives in a non-Aspie dominated world and so this guide is not claiming to have the answers but is still looking on the bright side. What's more there is a series of three of these guides so check out The Asperger Social Guide and The Asperger Personal Guide as soon as possible by the same authors. Good on you.