Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #80849 in Books
• Published on: 1998-09-01
• Original language: English
• Binding: Paperback
• 70 pages

Customer Reviews

The truth is out there (though not in this book)
I bought this book because it was offered with Mystery Method and, having read The Game, I thought it couldn't hurt to hear it from another guru's point of view. After all, Style did it.

I was wrong.

My girlfriend disapproves of me reading books on pick-up, and the reason (apart from the obvious) is she thinks PUAs hate women. This is not the case with Mystery Method. Mystery Method is a way to be more fun, interesting and attractive around women. If these tactics were employed by all men, it would make men a much more attractive proposition for women and its techniques should be welcomed.

Ross Jefferies does appear at times to hate women. Page 54, Paragraph 8 reads:

"Oh, the joy of battle, my borthers! Flushing a chick down the toilet of humiliation is almost as great a kick as scoring!"

He unapologetically loves sex, but occasionally uses it to punish women he has labelled as unworthy. He writes:

"To aid you in detection, I've designed what I call rather modestly the JEFFRIES UPRIGHT/UPTIGHT SCALE. It allows you to quickly size up a girl to let you know if she's got relationship potential or if she deserves no more than having one of the "quick-lay" strategies pulled on her."

I found this man abhorrent, not least of all for the spelling mistakes, poor editing and cheap paper in this book, which gives it the ironic appearance of a Christian pamphlet.

The one redeeming feature of this book, that which salvaged an extra star from me, is the brief description of neurolinguistic programming. I know he uses this technique for Speed Seduction and there is enough on it in this book to pique my interest and make me want to learn more.

In short, do not buy this book if you are an aspiring PUA. Read it only as an insight into the mind of one of the original gurus as he was in 1988. It is useless beyond that.

Absolute rubbish!
I am astonished and confused by the positive reviews written above.

This book looks as tawdry as it reads. The type font is thoroughly amateurish and makes you immediately think that you have bought something that can only have been self-published.

The author's writing style is rather poor and he comes across as little more than a bitter woman-hater.

He has one or two good ideas alongside some truly awful ones - the 'I'm your secret admirer,' T-shirt one was particularly unimpressive and the fact that he then went on to offer sell me one made me laugh. This suggestion was not his worst, however; breaking down in tears when a woman refuses to kiss you has to take that honour.

As for the NLP and hypnosis techniques... hmm!

This book has one saving grace - it is cheap.

One of the best on the market today!
"How to get the Women..." is one of the best picking up guides available on the market today. It has precise practices you can apply to real life sitations and seems to be written by someone who knows how to get what you want. The advice was also less heavy-handed than some I've read recently, and doesn't seem to have any of the crassiness of other books. Highly recommened to those who want a better quality of life and dating life as well. Also recommended: "Get Laid Now!", another one of the better advice books as well.