Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #12297 in Books
• Published on: 2007-03-30
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Paperback
• 256 pages

Customer Reviews

Buy it!
I've bought quite a few books on this subject and I'm currently only halfway through this one but it's already more than earned it's price tag. It tells you:
How to tell instantly which girls want you to approach them (definitely my weakness, I used to see two girls looking at me and giggling as a bad thing.) what to say, how to say it, what to do, it tells you the lot and it's all backed up with proper scientific studies.
Basically if you want to get better with women or are just interested in human behaviour then read this book.

Pickup guide most men can understand.
This book was written by a woman for men. It's got simple yet comphrensive advice most guys can relate to. Overall, I found it to be quite good. What I enjoyed most was the laid back tone and the simple approach to women it recommends. Being too "in your face" can hurt your chances of meeting and potentially dating women. I am very glad I read this one and took a chance on it. I also liked, for seduction purposes, "Get Laid Now!", another book I found here.

Slightly conflicted but overall not that bad
I've been intrigued by writings of people on these subjects and have Leil Lowndes other books, however, in the case of this book, I find that some of the advice is conflicted with itself later in the book.

For example, Lowndes tells us early on in the book that "looks aren't important", something we'd all like to believe, however, later in the book while talking about the signalling between men and women she says "if she likes the look of you" - hmm? Another example of looks actually being a primary factor in social interaction is her tip which states "if the fish aren't biting, change the bait".

The reason I challenge her writing in this case is because unfortunately until you've spoken to and interacted with someone for a few minutes, how you look across the room is all each of you have to go on.

Leil does however, back-up other writers observations of this genre in agreeing on the principles of why women fall for the "Thug-U-Like" bad-boy types over more genteel caring guys. However, is this scientific fact or a conspiracy to revive the "treat them mean keep them keen" mentality?

While overall this isn't a bad read with some excellent insight into the female mind (hence 3-stars), in my experience, this demonstrates more of the divide in dating between UK and USA, while this is aimed at metropolitan communities, most of Britain if you don't live in a city sadly hasn't evolved past opening lines like "get your coat, you've pulled!"

I bought this book because i'd read her other two books and I wasn't sure if I was getting many signals from women. Now I know for sure that i'm not getting any signals from women at all!