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In this moving memoir, Robert J. Wagner opens his heart to share the romances, the drama and the humor of an incredible life. Under the mentorship of stars like Spencer Tracy, he became a salaried actor in Hollywood's studio system among other hot actors of the moment such as his friends Rock Hudson and Tony Curtis. Working with studio mogul Darryl Zanuck, Wagner began to appear in a number of films alongside the most beautiful starlets - but his first love was Barbara Stanwyck, an actress twice his age. As his career blossomed, and after he separated from Stanwyck, he met the woman who would change his life forever, Natalie Wood. They fell instantly and deeply in love and stayed together until the stress of their careers - hers marching upward, his inexplicably deflating - drove them to divorce. Trying to forget the pain, he made more movies and spent his time in Europe with the likes of Steve McQueen, Sophia Loren, Peter Sellers, Laurence Olivier, David Niven, Liz Taylor and Joan Collins. He would meet and marry the beautiful former model and actress Marion Marshall. Together they had a daughter, and made their way back to America, where he found himself at the beginning of a new era in Hollywood - the blossoming of television. Lew Wasserman and later Aaron Spelling would work with Wagner as he produced and starred in some of the most successful programs in history. Despite his new found success, his marriage to Marion fell apart. He looked no further than Natalie Wood, for whom he still pined. To the world's surprise, they fell in love all over again. Their life together was cut tragically short, though, when Wood died after falling from their yacht. For the first time, Wagner writes about that tremendously painful time. After a serious bout with depression, he finally resurfaced and eventually married Jill St. John, who helped keep his family and his fractured heart together.

Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #18536 in Books
• Published on: 2009-03-05
• Original language: English
• Binding: Hardcover
• 336 pages

Review
Robert Wagner is outrageously indiscreet in his zinging account of Hollywood affairs ... His on-off-on-again life with Natalie Wood is one of Hollywood's greatest love stories ... His memoirs cannot help but be entertaining. --Sunday Times

Review
`Fantastic ... Reads like a Who's Who of Hollywood. What a story he has to tell.' Mirror

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In this moving memoir, Robert J. Wagner opens his heart to share the romances, the drama and the humor of an incredible life. He grew up in Bel Air next door to a golf course that changed his life. As a young boy, he saw a foursome playing one morning featuring none other than Fred Astaire, Clark Gable,Randolph Scott and Cary Grant. Seeing these giants of the silver screen awed him and fueled his dreams of becoming a movie star. Battling a revolving door of boarding schools and a father who wanted him to forget Hollywood and join the family business, sixteen-year-old Wagner started like any naïve kid would – walking along Sunset Boulevard, hoping that a producer or director would notice him.

Under the mentorship of stars like Spencer Tracy, he would become a salaried actor in Hollywood’s studio system among other hot actors of the moment such as his friends Rock Hudson and Tony Curtis. Working with studio mogul Darryl Zanuck, Wagner began to appear in a number of films alongside the most beautiful starlets – but his first love was Barbara Stanwyck, an actress twice his age. As his career blossomed, and after he separated from Stanwyck, he met the woman who would change his life forever, Natalie Wood. They fell instantly and deeply in love and stayed together until the stress of their careers – hers marching upward, his inexplicably deflating – drove them to divorce.

Trying to forget the pain, he made more movies and spent his time in Europe with the likes of Steve McQueen, Sophia Loren, Peter Sellers, Laurence Olivier, David Niven, Liz Taylor and Joan Collins. He would meet and marry the beautiful former model and actress Marion Marshall. Together they had a daughter, and made their way back to America, where he found himself at the beginning of a new era in Hollywood – the blossoming of television. Lew Wasserman and later Aaron Spelling would work with Wagner as he produced and starred in some of the most successful programs in history.

Despite his new found success, his marriage to Marion fell apart. He looked no further than Natalie Wood, for whom he still pined. To the world’s surprise, they fell in love all over again, this time more deeply and with maturity. As she settled into a domestic life, raising their own daughter, Courtney, as well as their children from previous marriages, Wagner became the sole provider, reaping the riches of television success. Their life together was cut tragically short, though, when Wood died after falling from their yacht.

For the first time, Wagner writes about that tremendously painful time. After a serious bout with depression, he finally resurfaced and eventually married Jill St. John, who helped keep his family and his fractured heart together.

With color photographs and never-before-told stories, this is a quintessentially American story of one of the great sons of Hollywood.

Customer Reviews

A charmed life
Robert Wagner's memoir is full of stories about his many movies (The War Lover) and TV shows (Hart To Hart), his lovers and friends, and, of course, his years with Natalie Wood. Wagner seems to be in real life much like the characters he's played - charming, suave, confident, and romantic; that winning personality combined with his ever-youthful and handsome good looks have made him a star for fifty years.

We learn about his decades-long friendships with megastars like David Niven and his love affairs with a bevy of stars, including Barbara Stanwyck, his devotion to wife Natalie and later serenity with current wife Jill St. John. I enjoyed hearing all about old Hollywood and couldn't put the book down. The book contains many movie and personal photos.

Pieces of publicity releases
I was very interested in RJ Wagner's life story, as he certainly was around a lot of interesting people at an interesting time, and of course was on the spot for one of the great Hollywood tragedies. He played mostly supporting roles in movies, and found his feet as a leading man on television, and starred on several popular series. This book was disappointing though, as it failed to give more than superficial observations and rather mushy sentiments. He starts by describing his early life growing up, and admits to wealth and privilege, but claims his father was abusive (spanking him when he misbehaved) and both parents neglectful. Because he doesn't care to go into too much detail, it's hard to sympathise- when he says that after school he only wanted to try and get into the movies, and that his father finally offered him a deal- to buy him a convertible car and pay him an allowance for a year- and that this "Wasn't a great deal" but he accepted it, it comes off as pretty spoilt & ungrateful. He tells of his early struggles to make it- commenting often on how handsome he was at that time, and rather unpleasantly, on some of the girls who "chased" him and saying that he didn't find them attractive. He starts here on what becomes the main page-fillers of the book- gushing over older, more successful men in the film industry, and describing their friendships. He makes no response or comment at all in regard to the rumours of his being secretly bisexual, although tends to comment on the sexuality of the men he comes into contact with, and always reports if they made a pass at him or not. As you read the book, it starts to get quite tiresome to hear what fabulous guys these men all were, especially as he describes their friendships with so much more enthusiasm than his romances with his wives. The only female he really seems to get excited about is Barbara Stanwyck, who he had a romance with when he was first starting in films.
As the book progresses, he casts no light on the dramatic big argument which broke up his first marriage to Natalie Wood. Several biographies agree that she became so upset that night that she crushed a glass in her hand and ran from the house they shared to her parents house in hysterics. He doesn't deny this, but just describes it as "they got into an argument". As far as her death goes- he pretty much reiterates the statement he made to the police at the time, and doesn't add much other detail. He admits they had been drinking and arguing- even to smashing a wine bottle on the table during the argument, but his fallback position is: "I wasn't there; I don't know what happened; no one will ever know." This is frustrating, because of course he was there- he was RIGHT there on the spot. But he's certainly not adding any more information now. He doesn't say much about not wanting to call the Coast Guard immediately after he found Natalie missing from their boat- just says they looked around themselves and didn't call the Coast Guard until later. Apparently his family lawyer "made him promise" never ever to make any press statements about the incident and that he agreed, and is glad he did. After the whole thing happened, he returned home- instead of going straight home he visited his psychiatrist to "ask him how to break the news to the children". He got some good advice on this, apparently, but by the time he got home the children had already heard the news from the television. He prefers to dwell, not on the incident itself, but on the terrible depression and grieving time he went through afterwards. I thought it was strange that he speaks bitterly of "famous women" who came to visit him when he was grieving- "uninvited" and bringing gifts of food. He suggests they were trying to snap him up now that he was single again, and that it was a "disconcerting display" and "so disrespectful". He didn't seem to bear this in mind when he hooked up with Jill St. John soon afterwards, though. I know this seems like a very negative review of the book, but it's a frustrating read- no new information about his marriage, although there are still unanswered questions there. Over the top gushing about the big stars and discussion of what good friends they are- he has a tendency to dislike the wives of his good male buddies, and is rather waspish about them. Moments of sickly sentimentality- references to things "filling his soul" or "souls rushing by him" the "beautiful confirmation of life" - he describes a favourite dog as being "the blood of my heart, embodying joy as well as a nobility of spirit and form". In fact, he has bought four plots in a cemetery in Aspen for him, his wife, his dog, and "any of the children who'd like to be buried there". How would that work? His daughters packed into one grave together while the dog has it's own? I didn't think you were allowed to have dogs and people buried in graveyards together, but maybe it's different in America. He WILL make sure to repeat every single compliment that anyone famous has paid him, and uses the book as a platform to be critical of various people he feels have let him down. It comes off as if he never put pen to paper for a second, and that he just taped a series of anecdotes and sent them off to the ghost writer, then expanded on request. Most of the really interesting stuff he has already talked about in interviews, so there's nothing mind-blowing here. For the dedicated RJ Wagner fans only.

You wont be disappointed.
First class autobiography by a Hollywood Star-one of the best I have read. Robert Wagner does indeed share pieces of his heart with you, unlike some. It was very enjoyable to read about his early days in Hollywood and something about the many stars he knew well. He shares his good times & his very sad times. Highly recommended.