Product Details

• Amazon Sales Rank: #71684 in Books
• Published on: 2004-08
• Original language: English
• Number of items: 1
• Binding: Hardcover
• 208 pages

Customer Reviews

Relating with Ease!
I am so thankful that Shaunti Feldhahn did the foot work, investigating the inner lives of men. I had often wondered why the communication in certain areas of my relationship would break down. This book clears up many misunderstandings that I have had with my relationship. I always knew that women and men were "wired" a little differently, and Shaunti Feldhahn's discoveries bring clarity to these mysteries and celebrate our differences. Other books that have made an immeasurable difference with my relationship is Ariel & Shya Kane's How to Create a Magical Relationship: The 3 Simple Ideas that Will Instantaneously Transform Your Love Life, Working on Yourself Doesn't Work: The 3 Simple Ideas That Will Instantaneously Transform Your Life and Being Here: Modern Day Tales of Enlightenment. I am more in love with my husband and I am more present in my life than ever before. Relating with ease is truly possible. Check it out!

A MUST READ FOR ALL WOMEN!
I have read a lot of books on understanding men and when I was first recommended this one I admit I wasn't expecting it to be anything new. However I found it really easy to read and REALLY insightful bringing out different things than I've heard before.

The book is actually based on a survey that the author conducted across the board of christian and non christian guys in all different walks of life asking them different questions and found that the majority answered the same way - to her surprise. Some of the results of the surveys are included in the book to back up things that are said. It's really interesting for example how it says that for men to feel respected is REALLY important to them but for women on the same level is the need to feel loved. Explaining why often in a discussion mens response will be to get angry if they're feeling their opinion isnt respected and the women will end in tears because she isn't feeling loved.
Theres so much more in this book - it's really practical and insightful. It brings up things I think we just havent even realised that we think differently on as men and women cos it's the kind of things you wouldn't even ask or talk about based on assumption and programmed way of thinking so it's assumed the opposite sex thinks the same - but no!
I'm definitely buying my own copy of this one as theres so much in it that I want to be able to refer to.
I couldn't recommend it more highly, if it's the only one you ever read on men it'll sure make a difference!

Reality Check!
This is an awesome book which delves into the insights of what men truly feel and think about regarding a number of varied aspects of life.
Without losing it's human touch this book reveals some very interesting survey results that I would never have guessed before. Including the importance of your man having and being shown respect by you as his partner. Coming from a women's perspective, I always considered love one of the most important elements in a relationship. I discovered this is not necessarily true for men. Survey says...Respect is what tops their list. Neither of these elements are better or worse than the other, just different as they reflect how men and women are different.

Two awesome books both touching upon relating are called "Working on Yourself Doesn't Work" and "How To Create A Magical Relationship" written by Ariel and Shya Kane. The Kanes present new possibilities in how to relate to your partner that can create and sustain magical relationships. Disharmony is replaced by ease, fun and satisfaction. All of these books are insightful and potent in presenting new ways of having the best relationship with your partner and others in your life.